Seek and you shall find. I think constantly studying the Wisdom of Kabbalah, in my case, and trying to see the Creator all around me and trust that all is in His hands and all is for our good, is all I can do.
I hope to attain the Light. I hope to awaken the point in the heart and have the Creator grant me the Masach, so He can help me climb out of the dream and into realty and adhesion with Him.
From my understanding the 10 our like the sefirot, like they say there is strength in numbers. By working with others who have the same desire, that makes the desire stronger to attract the light. It is almost like the scene in Harry Potter when Dumbldore dies. First one person pulls out their wand and it has a small light (desire to banish the darkness), then another and another, and soon the whole sky is lighted and the darkness is overcome. The 10 also ensure that we stay on the correct path and do not stray unintentionally.
We need the point in the heart to awaken, and then we need to lift MAN so that the Creator will lead us to a teacher and an authentic way to study Kabbalah.