I really don’t know. It’s easy to wish good for the ones who are nice to us but the ego is ever so strong towards those who bring conflict and challenges to our life. It might take constant awareness of our inner state of feelings towards others who triggers us and from that awareness choose to forgive them anyway and pray for their well-being. Despite the voice in the head that wants to teach them a lesson. Repetition of this attitude might reprogram our thought pattern and eventually give up resistance and bring peace in our own being. May be. And that would be just a starting point to evoke light for the whole
I have been seeking to understand for almost 8 years now. Going from teachers to teacher from one teaching to another but the understanding is still scattered. I feel like I have pieces of understanding from everyone and every teaching but they aren’t forming as a whole satisfactory piece which I can apply in real life and rise above suffering and ego. It hasn’t happened to me yet.
First of all I’d like to thank you all for coming up with this amazing platform that is filled with guidance and values. I have enjoyed the contents very much.
I have two question at this point. If we consciously adapt the quality of love and bestowal we will become like it, and we will feel what it feels, we will do what it does. But, from the point of feeling, what it feels means we will also feel all the pains of everyone along with all the pleasure of everyone? Because the feeler is one?
And since it works in balance .. if I continuously bestow then arent I out of balance ? Since the nature of reality is balance ? So should I stick to one side of the pole eg: only love and bestowal ? Or do I have to adapt any attribute from the opposite side of the pole to to come to balance ? Thank you