Yes which is why siblings recall growing up and family events so differently. It’s down to our perception, perspective and beliefs. These influence how we interpret our reality from the reality we all exist in outside of the box
We often have a sense of free will, or freedom to choose, but we never have control over the outcome. We are free to choose our environment and just where we live but who we gather with, what we consume, what we choose to learn and from whom. Even in the belief of free will many choose bondage as freedom is really obedience and not the pursuit of our disordered affections.
To know myself fully, to give of myself freely without sacrifice or suffering. To be joyful no matter the situation I am forced to face and to help others feel love in their own lives.