Not to judge myself and others for what I see with my 5 senses. Things are not what we believe they are. Everything is perfect as it is, no need to worry, sooner or later we will all get there. That’s God’s Plan i.e. His will is my will.
I have read in a Kabbalah book that talks about the “Bread of Shame” is this related to the desire to receive and the desire to bestow? e.i. The heart in the point is the desire to bestow that The Creator put in us, so as not to be lost, because we are one, and only The One exists?