We should intend to bestow to others before ourselves and by doing this become like the creator as he is the will to bestow.
Even though this is? almost impossible because we have been created as the will to receive.
The intention to bestow selflessly develop’s the point in the heart, and shows the creator our sincere desire to know him by being like him & attracts the upper light.
The upper light helps us how to begin to conquer our desires/ego & climb the ladder to the spiritual world.
By desiring the pleasure of giving to others and therefore the creator.
This type of pleasure is not quenched by the fulfilment of a single desire but extends fulfilment endlessly.