So, in turn every action we do, as far as giving goes, is for the benefit of the way it will make us feel when you do it. It may make us feel good that we gave to charity or it may make us feel good that we bought a person a meal. So by us giving we are receiving a fulfillment. We are still receiving, which still inturn makes it a selfish act.
The intention is where are thoughts need to be. The intention needs to be, not to receive pleasure but to progress someone else in spiritual growth. To give in order to spread spiritual growth.