Loving and helping others is a way to love and help yourself by accepting the faults in others and therefore in yourself. Any new thought/input/ information is deeper assimilated when you transmit it. Therefore helping others is also helping yourself and, as a part of a system, the more advance and functional are the peaces, better the system all together.
I would like to understand life, world and people while enhancing my capacity to love and accept life, world and people. A little control and clarity would be fine, also..