Gar de Binah and Zat de binah says that we can not bestow unless we receive. I know the spritual concepts can not be understood well in the corporeal but loosely does this mean that we have to feel the needs of others totally as our own like in teshuvah? but how can we do this? If a friend hurts me, do i just forgive him and also feel his pain because as we know there is no one else but the Creator?
secondly too is that in kabbalah, we keep on asking questions not just blind faith. how then are we so sure that what we are doing is right? and if we judge others as not authentic or not the right path, isnt it also egoism since we are told that each one is unique when the vessels shattered?
I want to totally be as similar to the Light. I want the Light to transform these parts of me that i cannot transform alone so i may be as bestowing like him
so many great realizations – there is non e else beside Him and the interconnectedness of all creation – so now i realize that every situation and every one is reallly the Creator – guiding me towards adhesion. the pain that i feel, the greater it is – this is my ego – my desire to receive for myself.
Rav also said that it does not mean when some people talk to God – it may only be their imagination. what is important is the individual perception and connection to the Upper Force
It is the intention that is mostimportant. If a mother gives everything to her child so that tbe child will love her back, this is not tne right intention?