“We can’t lift even a finger unless we see the benefit of it”.
I can’t say how most people would react to this condition. I will guess that being ignored will lean towards shredded because the two seem the most similar to me, however the ignored one is the most “empty” one…
Yes, I have experienced what loneliness and isolation can do to person. And I also know how speaking about it to someone trusted and understanding can help the healing process.