If we were connected according to the spiritual law of love, we will all be thinking of each other’s welfare rather than your own welfare. We will protect each other and we will see all of us as one being or community with strong positive connection.
Since I started studying kabbalah, I have disconnected myself from most groups that I was in if not totally then partially. On the other hand too I was feeling lonely yearning to join a group that I will connect to spiritually.
To help others means to see them as yourself. Since what I see outside of me is actually my extension, by helping others( those with the point in the heart) advance I will also advance spiritually.