I realized that I am acting from a judgmental, self righteous point of view too often. Just simple things, like not letting someone in front of me in traffic. Thinking/perceiving that they are acting in a selfish manner evokes a selfish act on my part in return. Letting go of road rage benefits me.
Using the traffic analogy, and referring to the lesson that says what is mine is also yours speaks to we’re all literally and figuratively, on the same path. We’re all trying to get there, in different cars, but on the same road. If I use my energy to remain passive aggressive, I’m hindering the fflow.