[Helen]

Hi Gianni

I watched below 2 videos on workshop rules. I assume they apply to the zoom meeting of our 10. I found the instruction very very helpful, do we have those written down? it will be nice if we do as it takes times to really understand and apply those rules, it takes even longer for those rules to becoming our 2nd nature.

thanks to the friends who shared those videos and who asked the good questions about how to work together.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k7ie9D8Lx5U

Lesson 38 – How to participate at a workshop?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5WPw04k2_qk

Lesson 39 – How to participate at a workshop? Part 2

[Helen]

“revealed to the extent that I can correct it”. I think I get it now… thank you Gianni for taking time to explain it again and again.

[Helen]

I think I am a bit lost here…I thought we were to grow the Kli, which is the will to receive but the difference is to use this desire in the direction of bestowing.  What does it mean to “grow the Kli”? it means to grow the desire to receive, to receive what? to receive the reforming light from the Creator, not for my own benefit, but to please the creator. so far on right track? if so, will my corporeal desire in daily life also grow on parallel?  how do I minimize that corporeal impact? by be more aware of my increasing desires and then control it?  it sounds like you are saying my egoist desire will not grow, it’s already at it’s full potential but I am just not seeing it clearly yet?

sorry if you have already answered my question but it am not getting it.

[Helen]

Hi Gianna, I am sharing what you said with our 10 “lower myself and raise the friends above me; give love of friends to the ten, and not wait for love to be shown to me, such that friends will behave in manners that suit my opinion of what love of friends looks like”

my questions is: should we encourage each friend in our 10 to share with us how they’d like to be loved( and maybe it’s different from time to time) ? if not, how do we know what we do(as many actions can be the conduct of love) will really help this friend?

[Helen]

Hi Gianni, probably my questions did not  make much sense, is that why it’s not answered yet? basically I am asking while our desire to bestow grows, our desire to receive all grow at the same time correct? how do I manage myself so my desire to receive won’t affect my loved ones(friends and families) while I continue to use it to build the Kli in spiritual work?  thanks!

• This reply was modified 12 months ago by Helen.

[Helen]

Hi Gianni

for the degree of coarseness, a couple of questions

1. is it correct that I will become more self-love(scary!) before I can start to be corrected? is that a necessary step in order for me to reach this desperation for correction? and actually it’s a constant spiral? I get worse then I elevate, I get even worse then I elevate again?

2. within the 10, we will probably understand each others behavior(hopefully) and work together, but I imagine this will bring negative impacts to my daily life? how do I minimize  that corporeal life impact,  as obviously I want to change to be better not to be worse, not just spiritually but also for my corporeal life.  not sure if I make sense to you.

thanks!

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