Typically a person who senses suffering is actually sensing their disconnection from the Creator. If one is already in spirituality, this would be a “sin”.
The intended use of our qualities and our character finding how those qualities need to be engaged in order to best serve the purpose of creation. The Creator knows how to do this, not us. That’s why His quality needs to rule our will to receive and not the other way around–the will to receive ruling us.
Everything in our reality comes from the Creator, He’s gives us the perfect recipe of “life” suited perfectly for our path. It’s our job to understand that all that He sends is for our good and when we deviate from that perspective and understanding, we quickly need to find our way back to “None Else Besides Him”.